Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you felt like a complete fraud, even though you were well-qualified for the job? Have you ever felt like you were just pretending to know what you were doing, waiting for the day when someone would finally expose you as a fake? If so, welcome to the club of imposter syndrome sufferers!
Now before I go any further there are times when you should act on your feelings of imposter syndrome and get out of the situation.
· If you find yourself standing in a surgeon’s gown holding a scalpel, ready to take out someone’s tonsils. When the only medical training you have is playing Operation when you were 8 years old. · If you find yourself in the control of a 747 full of passengers. When the only plane you’ve ever flown was made of folded paper.
Imposter syndrome is a common feeling experienced by many people, regardless of their actual abilities. It's a feeling of inadequacy and self-doubt that can hold you back from reaching your full potential. But don't worry, you're not alone! Some of the most successful people in the world have experienced imposter syndrome at some point in their careers.
So, how do you overcome this feeling of being a fraud? Well, grab some popcorn and get ready to laugh, because I've got three tips to help you conquer imposter syndrome once and for all.
Tip #1: Embrace Your Inner Idiot, Nerd or Weirdness We all have quirks and imperfections, and that's what makes us unique and special. Embrace your inner whatever and don't be afraid to let yourself shine. If you're a nerdy introvert, embrace your love of model railways. If you have a collection of garden gnomes or if you're a comedian at heart, don't be afraid to crack a joke or two. Just be yourself and the rest will fall into place.
Tip #2: Stop Competing with Yourself We all tend to compare ourselves to others and feel like we're not measuring up. But the truth is, the comparison is a joy sponge. Instead of comparing yourself to others, focus on your progress and celebrate your victories, no matter how small they may be. And remember, everyone's journey is different, so don't try to fit into someone else's mould. Tip #3: Give Yourself a Break
It's important to practice self-care and give yourself a break when you need it. This means taking time for yourself, relaxing, and doing things that bring you happiness It's also important to be kind to yourself and not beat yourself up over mistakes or failures. Remember, everyone makes mistakes, and everyone fails at some point in their lives. It's how you handle those failures that defines you.
In conclusion, imposter syndrome is a common feeling experienced by many people, but it's possible to overcome it. By embracing your inner div, stopping the competition with yourself, and giving yourself a break, you'll be well on your way to feeling confident and capable in your abilities.
So, there you have it, folks! A comedy guide to overcoming imposter syndrome. Remember, it's okay to feel like a fraud sometimes, but with these tips, you'll be able to laugh your way to success!
Before I go would you like a real life, current story of someone overcoming imposter syndrome, going for it and succeeding?
In the top division of French football, there is a small team called Reims. They are currently doing very well, in fact, a lot better than expected. Why? Well because their manager, Will Still, yes that’s his name! Has no real-life experience at all. His only managerial experience comes from playing Football Manager on his home computer.
If he can do that, then you can do anything. Just no minor surgeries or trans-Atlantic flying for now.
