Creating Confidence through Comedy
Would you like your teenager to feel more confident?
Would you like your teenager to find making friends much easier and less stressful?
Would you like your teenager to feel relaxed in new or unfamiliar situations
We Can Help
Laughter feels good. It helps reduce tension, it helps us all feel more relaxed.
Laughter also helps people connect – we are naturally attracted to people that make us laugh and are always laughing themselves.
We can teach your child how to use humour to connect with others. We use techniques to help them realise just how creative and funny they are. We also use the techniques that comedians use to ‘get them relaxed enough to perform’ to help them manage their nerves and fears.
Have you ever been in a situation and didn’t know what to say … only to think of the best response 2 days later? We can teach your teenager some tools to both come up with witty retorts and to practice this so that they start to come naturally, more often. (You might not want your teenager to practice this on you though!)
Workshop One : Everyone is Funny
The purpose of workshop one is to build confidence in your child by showing them they are already naturally funny, creative and unique. We also let them experience that amazing feeling of making other children laugh. This is great for their self-esteem and shows them that in this serious world, they can feel good through laughter.
One of the comedy improv games we use, gets your child to create a unique object (that would never have been thought of by anyone else in the world). They don’t even realise they’ve done this, until we point it out to them after the game…..
That’s a real WOW moment as your child gets to understand for themselves how creative they can be and how unique they actually are.
This workshop can be done as a fun 90 minutes by itself or as the foundation workshop for building more confidence in the following workshops.
Workshop 2 : Using Comedy to Overcome Fear
Using similar games from the first workshop, we focus on stories to help teenagers look at their fears in a different way.
We talk about how we create fear in our mind, by imagining the worst things that might happen in a situation. This creates a physical reaction in our body so that we ‘feel’ fear or feel nervous. We use the story telling games to change those worries. First by facing the fears head on but also using the imagination to change the ‘what if’ story.
Through comedy games and role playing we show your teenager that a lot of our fears are imaginary and that they can be overcome by simply starting to change how they think about the situation.
We then take these approaches and work with other uncomfortable situations and emotions and using the same approaches.
A couple of notes here – we won’t ask an individual to talk about their fears – we ask them to volunteer scenarios and if as a group they don’t make any suggestions, we use common examples – such as the school play/joining a new class.
If you child has a serious fear, this is not counselling. Please do talk to us about this before booking so together we can decide if this workshop is appropriate and if it is, we can be aware of the circumstances.
Workshop Three : Making New Friends
Workshop 3, is focused on using these comedy techniques to help teenagers connect with others.
We take the work done in workshop 2 about overcoming fear and apply it to ‘why is talking to certain people scary.’
Once we look at fear, we use the creativity and humour games to give teenagers different ideas of how to start conversations with new people or those that may make them feel nervous. Making others laugh, will make your teenager feel good about themselves and the more they do it, the more their confidence will grow.
We know how that we are naturally attracted to confident people and funny people. The more they practice these techniques the more your teenager will naturally attract others, making it more and more easy to make new friends and be included.
Where & When
We hold our workshops over the ZOOM platform, you don’t need an account and we will send you over all the details you need. We also limit our events to just 10 children, this means that they all get plenty of time to get involved.
Our Teen workshops are aimed at children aged 12 – 16.
Taking Safety Seriously
Even though this event is online we still take your children’s safety and wellbeing seriously. Both Anne and I are CRB checked, our certificates can be made available upon request. We will only record the events if permission is given in advance. Parents are welcome to sit in on the workshops, if only to steal tips!!
*** Top Tip ***
We promised you a top tip, so here it is………… and boy does it work. From now on, never say ‘I’m nervous’ about any upcoming event, say that you are excited about it. Whether someone asks you if you are nervous or you are talking to yourself….. YOU ARE EXCITED!!! When it comes to the event you and your brilliant brain will only be excited, you’ll still get the adrenalin you need but you’ll be raring to go.